Where has 2023 gone? We’re just about to hit another festive season filled with team celebrations, Christmas parties and the new year. While this can be an exciting time filled with connection and joy, for some it can also bring up very complicated feelings and be quite lonely.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by facing the upcoming holiday season, here’s our top tips on how to look after yourself during this time:
Protect your mental health with boundaries
Not sure how you will handle that family Christmas or a long list of social occasions? It’s time to set some boundaries with friends and family to protect yourself. This could look like putting a timeframe on how long you will stay at a party or saying no to those events that you don’t believe will have a positive effect on your wellbeing.
Keep your routines consistent
At a time when we are often rushing to complete work for the year, indulging in food and drink and attending social occasions, it can be easy for daily routines to fall behind. Remember that routines like daily exercise, good nutrition and mindfulness can help refill your cup and ensure you are looking after yourself at a busy time.
Reflecting on the year that was
Schedule in some time for yourself between now and the new year and reflect on how you felt during 2023 – what helped you to move through difficult emotions and what brought you joy. You can then make a roadmap for how you are going to put your mental health first in 2024.
Know that it is okay if you struggle at this time of year
There are many reasons that you may not find endless joy in the summer holiday season – you could be grieving the loss of a loved one, feeling lonely and isolated, overwhelmed with all the ‘to-do’s’ and so much much more. If you are feeling this way, know that it is okay. And if you have a mate that you know may find this time challenging? Make sure to check in with them.
On your own this Christmas Day?
If you are looking for some connection this Christmas, check out some great local community options for you on the Fraser Coast:
MADCOTA Community Hub – A festive gathering for all those who are alone this Christmas.
25th December 2023 – 333 Alice Street, Maryborough, 11:30am to 1:30pm.
Details here.
Hervey Bay RSL’s Community Christmas Lunch
This is a chance to sit down for a traditional Christmas meal, enjoy some wonderful company and reflect on the year gone by.
25th December 2023 – Hervey Bay RSL – 11.30am to 2.30pm
Details here.
Hervey Bay Womens Walk and Talk – Christmas Day
For those wanting to get steps up after lunch and for those who would love to connect with our community on Christmas Day.
25th December 2023 – 5.15pm to 7.15pm
Details here.
If you are finding this festive season incredibly difficult and need someone to have a chat to, please reach out for free and confidential counselling services here.